Monday, April 30, 2012

Wedding on a Cruise Ship - Day 1


Day 1 – A Lovely Bride

Actually, I should start this at Day minus one and counting when the bride’s family had a terrific  luau/barbecue in their screened in lanai with pool, waterfall , tiki bar, coconut cups, and lots of good people to meet.  Having met only the immediate family and groom, I knew everyone by name (heck I know their dates of birth, phone numbers, past passenger numbers … you name it), but I didn’t know THEM.  I heard so many  “Oh – YOU’RE Dorothy” exclamations – the Cruise Planners t-shirt made it kind of obvious.

You know how when you speak to people on the phone several times you get a mental image of them?  Well, how nice was it when someone told me that I was younger and thinner than they had  imagined me?  I LIKE this crowd!

Day of the wedding found the whole house up d congregating around the coffee maker at  about 4:30 AM .  Hair and makeup artist was arriving at 5:30 to work on bride and groom’s mothers and I think an aunt or two, luggage had to be in the driveway by 7:30, beds turned back into sofas, the usual pre-wedding stuff.   


 Then on the bus, pick up the rest of the wedding party at their hotel and to the port.  

 Carnival had us in a holding pattern at the port for a good long time (the old “get there by 10:00 AM or you won’t be able to board, but once we’ve gotten you here you can go have a seat – for an hour and a half”).  No photos in the terminal – Homeland Security and all that.

During the holding pattern I got to meet some of the wedding party that hadn’t been  at the luau.  Even “Aunt Helen” who at 89 years old has more energy than half the people I know and boogied with us on the dance floor later.  

The ship is about what I remember from other Carnival ships.  Big, showy, okay maybe a little cheesy here and there, but clean and bright and everyone had big smiles to greet us.  All the guests were invited to have lunch while the wedding rehearsal took place, and the food was arguably good.  The wedding was held in the main showroom  because we had about 100 guests – too many for the little chapel on board.  I'm trying to upload a video of the bride coming down the aisle.  Taken with my phone, and it looks it, but they internet Gods are not currently with me and I'm getting error messages.


Lots of hot and cold hors’ de oeuvres at the reception including delicious fresh raspberries, blueberries, and blackberries (there’s something that I just love about eating berries when they’re not yet in season – it seems so luxurious).  Carnival did a nice job.  The wedding coordinator got things moving along very smoothly, the bouquet was thrown, the non-sailing guests ushered off, and we were on our way to sea with the new Mr. and Mrs. Parker, plus 44 of their closest friends!  And what a group it is.  This crowd could have fun on a garbage scow so being on a nice ship just make it all the better. 

My feet still hurt from the 4” heels, the dancing and just once heck of a long day, including a 5:30 AM jog (never again), but I’d do it again in a heartbeat – and the sailing has just started.  

Hope you’ll join me in wishing all the very best to this special couple – there will be stories to tell in the coming days!